You know a man, at first he seems very attracted to you. He pursues you and tries to conquer your heart. When he finally has you, there are nice moments together but after a while begins to change. Although if you like there are times when you behave very affectionate with you and moments when you are away, ignores you and you seem not to care.
Weird, no? He does not communicate much with you, sometimes he says he needs time. He also says he does not feel ready for a relationship or any other excuse for no apparent reason.
He does not seem to know what he wants.
There are days when he is super attentive and loving other days where he has an unexpected disinterest for you.
You would not believe how many times I've heard or seen this kind of story and even I once lived it.
I know how difficult that emotional instability on your part can be to you.
The truth is that if he likes you, he does feel a lot of things with you. In times when you feel lonely, want to see and show your feelings. Because as every human being feels the need to be with someone, so their romantic state is true.
So why does a man ignore the woman he likes?
In the cortege the man advances towards the woman showing his qualities to interest her and waiting for him to select it, right?
The option to select is a great advantage for women, but in recent times the situation seems to have reversed, it is now the men who select the women and make the decisions in the procession.
Many women believe that they must go out and arouse the interest of men, feel that they have to work to gain their approval and acceptance, doing things like dressing themselves up in fashion, falsifying interests for things that they may not like just because man they like
What caused that change of roles?
The desire to possess a man and to have an enduring relationship makes most women forget their natural advantages.
The eagerness to formalize a relationship leads them to suppress that natural instinct that would help them select the best man with the best qualities, and end up undergoing selection rather than selection.
When these women feel a certain type of chemistry with a man, they immediately see him as a potential boyfriend and imagine a relationship with him. This causes them to devote themselves to persecuting their candidate for a relationship.
On the other hand, women who have more self-control with their feelings and emotions, know that relationships are given as the chemistry and connection grow.
I explain better:
Many of you, at some point in your life, found a man they liked, there was chemistry between them, but they started to go too fast, to involve the feelings and to want to force a commitment on the relationship ... well that way NO it works.
Men have a deadline for commitment very different from that of women. If they are pressed, they disappear. Why?
Because men have a term to love very different from us. It usually takes them longer to fall in love, or at least to realize they are. That is why it is so important that you let things flow between you and continue as in the beginning. There are other reasons that the man ignores the woman and I will present them to you:
Because he feels he already has you in his pocket.
Men, in general, love challenges, things inaccessible. So if your man is ignoring you, it is because he feels that he no longer has to make any effort to have you. You remember when I was conquering you. Imagine that he is a wolf and you the sheep, maybe he feels that you are a very easy prey. He must always feel that you are an independent, desired woman, that you want but you do not need to be with him.
If your life changes since you are with him, if all your life and your daily thoughts are concentrated only on him, if you care nothing more in life than he, then believe me that he will gradually go away ... Because it feels absorbed.
Now, if he wants to be with you, there's no doubt about it. When he really listens to the bottom of his heart he feels things for you. However, at the same time the following occurs:
'' You're not the right woman for me. ''
You're not the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. He thinks that someday he will find '' a better one '' so to prevent him from believing in a future together he is slowly moving away from you. He goes away emotionally, sabotages the relationship and often without realizing it.
It is the subtle way that men use not to hurt your feelings. The man ignores the woman. They even justify themselves by saying, "I have not made you believe that we would have a future together, so I am not responsible for what she feels"
I know it's unfair but it's the sad reality for both of us. On one side he does not want to lose you (because he knows women like you do not find themselves like that). but at the same time she has her ideal of woman in her dreams.
You are not YOU whom he sees, but this has a solution.
You must rise to another level and become a sensational woman.
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