Marriage is one of the most difficult decisions a person can make in his or her life. It is not so easy. It is a new life shared with another person and responsibilities different from individual responsibilities. It is a relationship that needs effort and care to succeed and continue. According to sociological studies, It must be known to any person submitted to marriage, namely:
#1. The appropriate age for marriage begins at age 23
According to some studies, "showed that the right age for marriage begins at least 23 years and divorce rates are 30%, while divorce rates for couples under the age of 18 are much higher than the age of 18, %.
#2. The need for convergence in age between spouses
Studies have also shown that the large difference in age between spouses causes many differences, while age convergence reduces these differences and increases the harmony between the spouses; because the large difference in age means the difference in thinking and difference in the perception of things, so should not exceed this difference for 5 years .
#3. Love in marriage doesn't last (keep) forever
One of the logical facts that both spouses must accept is the fact that love in the honeymoon and the beginning of marriage may not last forever, because of the change and change of feelings of passion, attention and attraction between the spouses; these feelings are not constant and naturally change with circumstances.
#4. The fact that the parties are not one person must be recognized
It is normal for the couple to share all marital and family responsibilities, but they must be aware that they are not one person and each has different priorities and different types of work.
#5. Happy marriage means friendship between spouses
When a relationship is like a close relationship between friends, this marriage becomes a successful and happy relationship, and this is confirmed by many studies.
#6. Successful marital life is shared by the spouses
Any marriage that is not based on sharing the tasks and responsibilities of the spouses can not be successful; sharing the tasks is essential for the continuation of the relationship.
#7. Harmony between spouses is essential to the success of this relationship
Of course marital life is not a rosy life, but many colors and circumstances, but with the harmony and understanding between the couple becomes a rosy life and successful already; harmony between the couple stands in the face of any problem that may stand in the way of this marriage.
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